For Opaque Ladies

Are you beautiful?
I don't know, are you? Why not look in the mirror?!
What do you consider as beauty?
Some say the women with oval faces are prettier.... Than?
The women with round faces? The Chinese Geisha??
Have you seen those women? Oriental beauty at it's best!
Oh but wait, they have yellow skin, they can't be most beautiful.
Its has got to be the white skin. Look at all that fairness
With golden locks on their head and rosy cheeks... Taylor Swift?
Oh but wait again, we are not in the Shakespearean times
Dark-haired women are what's hot now... Angelina Jolie, Megan Fox,
Eva Mendes, Natalie Portman, Tyra Banks, Kim Kardashian, and you and I
Or not. Because it's easier to think others are better looking than we are.
So maybe it has got to be the dark-skinned. Slightly tanned, mixed blood,
Halle Berry, Alicia Keys, Leona Lewis, Nicole Scherzinger,
Or not, because today, Blondes are whats cool. Jennifer Aniston, Gwyneth Paltrow,
Hayden Panetierre, Reese Witherspoon, Kate Winslet and the likes.
Or any colour as long as you remain thin. So where does that leave Mariah Carey,
Salma Hayek, Jordin Sparks, Kelly Clarkson, Fergie, or Serena Williams?
What is my point? Long haired, short haired, Fat, skinny, curvy, thin, light skinned,
Dark skinned, tanned, black, white, yellow, brown, red... WHATEVER it is you are
Beauty is socially constructed and every type of the beauty I have listed above has its reign
So are you gonna wait for the next ten years till your beauty type is called before you start to feel beautiful? If yes, then good luck with that!
We are ALL beautiful, look in the mirror, your mama gave birth to you that way. Once a cute baby, an adorable miracle, innocent beauty, chubby little creature; and how did all that change?
I don't care what you think you look like... No One Can Make You Feel Inferior Without Your Consent.- Eleanor Roosevelt. So its up to you to allow people, society to dictate how you ought to feel about yourself.

AmandaLola♥

Its Better To Be Alone Than To Be In The Wrong Company

Tell me who your best friends are, and I will tell you who you are. If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights.

Proverbs says, "A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses." The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with whom you closely associate - for the good and the bad.

Think about it; almost all of our sorrows spring out of the relationships with the wrong people. Instead, "Keep out of the suction caused by those who drift backwards" .

The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve. Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others it increases your mediocrity. A true Bulgarian proverb confirms, "If you find yourself taking two steps forward and one step backwards, invariably it's because you have mixed associations in your life." If a loafer isn't a nuisance to you, it's a sign that you are somewhat of a loafer yourself. I have discovered that an important attribute in successful people is their impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people.

A true friend is one who is there to care. They remain your friend even if you don't deserve to have a friend. They will see you through when others think you're through.
If you were to list your greatest benefits, resources or strengths, you would find that money is one of the least important ones while some of your greatest resources are the people you know. A true friend sees beyond you to what you can be.

Invest in good relationships. The way to make a true friend is to be one. Your wealth is where your friends are. Consider what Francesco Guicciardini said: "Since there is nothing so well worth having as friends, never lose a chance to make the right ones."

As you grow, your associates will change. Some of your friends will not want you to go on. They will want you to stay where they are. Friends that don't help you climb, will want you to crawl. Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dream. Those that don't increase you, will eventually decrease you.

Consider this: never receive counsel from unproductive people. Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing to the solution, because those who never succeed themselves are always first to tell you how. Not everyone has a right to speak into your life. You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person.

Don't follow anyone who's not going anywhere. With some people you spend an evening: with others you invest it. Be careful where you stop to inquire for directions along the road of life. Wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right friendships

And the Hobby continues

AmandaBakers Design

This reminds me of a military outfit for women, The shoulder pad, the neck tie, maybe more like a girl's scoutt outfit? I like the pink in it. Its a transformation from the male-ish design to a girly fashion.
I totally see myself wearing this. Its not a fun outfit if you don't know how to work with it. I was thinking shorts instead of a skirt, but I dont regret my decision. Absolutely love it!

AmandaBakers Design

I also like this American Flag Tank top that comes with a black pant and a red belt.
Its like an everyday girl look. You rep your country, where ever. Hmm If I can get someone, as seamstress or something to sew this all. All I need to just keep doing is design more and more :D Have my own fashion line and stuff! :P Yay..lol

AmandaBakers Design

So this is a typical red dress, dinner wear, red carpet, prom dress? and many other flamboyant events.
I like the slits by the sides and the mid-chest exposure. If you want to keep it simple, sexy and not trashy, this outfit is just good. Ok maybe not so simple..lol

My Computer sketches =D

 AmandaBakers Design

 This is a cherry Romper. I like the whole cherry idea. The emerald blue is gorgeous too and the yellow buttons beautify the 'shorts"'. This outfit, I got the inspiration from Zara. :)
This is the only outfit that I emulating outside my head tho. Trying to see how far my imagination can go. Love the bow on the chest, enhaces the breast line.

AmandaBakers Design

I like the vibe to this. Fits better as an evening wear, dinner? red carpet even. If the dress is made with such good material, then it would look gorgeus. Be careful though, when making it, it can look dtaed if you dont give it the smooth touches you have too. Afterall all fashion is re-invented.

AmandaBakers Design

This reminds me of Katy Perry for some reason. The red and yellow fruity bubble gum look. Again, looks like it could fit in, in the 90s more as a hollywood wanna-be type trying to get a role as a lover or something. You should have an idea what I mean.
The skirt can go with a black, yellow, or red skirt. Why don't we take it a step further and say grey? Depends on what shade.
I will be doing this more often. Found a new hobby...LOL

All American Girl...

Thinking about my "styles" in the past, I think it is safe to say that I am like that girl walking on the streets of New York, aspiring to help others, touch their lifes while making pages of fashion statements.

I will, by the grace of God have my two degrees: Criminology & almighty Law yet, will for some reason live the high life and aspire to have a clothing line where girls learn to emulate my fashionable yet conservative style. Like I said ages ago, I really don't have "A style", I have Styles... I'm stylish. Though, there is a pattern to these styles, they are conservative (flavored with decency, elegance and class).

I am your type of distinguishable everyday girl who wears
Jeans,
Sweats,
Blouses,
Capris,
Shorts,
Skirts,
Dresses,
Jumpsuits,
Blazers,
Sweaters,
(Scarfs, belts, hats, & other major and minor accessories)
Sometimes I like the effortless look, but sometimes I love the opposite. Either way, I dress good to reveal the soul in me, the Me you can't touch physically, yet you talk to. She is fashionable as well.
Goodnight angels of love&life xoxo

Pictures for Fashion Dos for women

This Victoria Beckham's Hermes Birkin purse. Beautifully colored against her skin. And as I said, the more skin you show, the bigger the purse ;)

As much as I dislike Hedi Montag's plastic body, I have to give it to her for this outfit. The purse matching the shorts; i like the way the shorts have the gold big buttons with  bold pink plumps to go with it. IF I come across an outfit like this (with a reasonable price for someone with my bidget of course) I'll so get it...lol

This is Victoria Beckham again with her Hermes Birkin purse and shorts. I disagree with how short she wears her short, given that she is a mum and in her 30s. But again, it emphasizes one of the Fashion Dos I stated earlier.

 Monique from Fat Phat Girls comes out holding a gown higher, and low and behold, the leg with furs hair all over it. Personally, I don't mind not shaving your legs in the winter, it keeps you warm but when summer is here, and you have your legs open, please ladies, shave/wax it all away.

Lauren Conrad from the Hills is set and looks hot even with that sun shine shining on her. Blue Buddy Holly to go with her tank top and she couldn't look any cooler! You go girl!

Here is Sasha Fierce  Beyonce with her Buddy Holly as well, she looks cute.  By the way, I like the Channel ear rings.

Who says bangs hurt you? I loveeee Bangs on I kissed a girl Katy Perry! The short bob suits her face, her chin is just beautiful for the hairstyle. Then her eyes are a different story,  but hell yeah, this summer, get a bang or a fringe!

This is her again with extensions in her hair. Have you noticed that her bangs never fuly close up, theres always an opening somewhere, I think I like it better that way, that way, it doesnt look fake like the next person's hair I am about to show you... lol

I like what's her face Nicki Minaj! I like her music and the cuteness she deposits with rap. Her wig hair is always done with bangs, its just her personality. But when its too closed up, you can tall something is "fishy" down there...lol

Gosg I just LOVE  shorts with Berets! The go hand-in-hand kind of... Talk about the girl with the pick sweater top, she looks beautiful not cuz she is anorexic skinny! lol
Loves it!

Its SUMMER guys! Change your winter looks with some Highlights! Here Gabrielle Union getting some blonde in ;)

Gladiators win my heart anytime! They are the style that you either fit with or dont! Love them!

Honestly, I love some of Hilary Duff's outfit, looks like we can share the same wardrobe comfortably! Rock it babe!

This is Ms Perry with acne, yet you still see the face has some oily foundation on it, #notright.
Try to use MAC studio fix, its powder and foundation in one, so you dont have to irritate your skin for the summer!

Thats Jenifer Lopez in red and Kate Hudson below, come on grils, you shouldnt let this be you...Its not cool, sexy or cute in ANY way whatsoever!

Love you all for reading, the guy version will be out soon!

For Guys-- Fashion Dos and Don'ts For the summer

So what is Fashion really? Without looking it up online or in a dictionary, permit me to assume that it is considered a style in trend. Most people want to be fashionable to be considered somewhat relevant, others because they see it as the only resort to attract their spouses or opposite sex and while some others do not want anything to do with fashion or trends, they want to have their "own style". In truth, everyone participates in some sort of fashion regardless what they wear. Heres a tip to guys who care about what they look like, how they are perceived and what they wear.

Fashion dos

1. Do use colognes & antipersperant ; body odour in the summer is nauseating.
2. Do get a nice haircut , something you haven't tried before but you believe suits you.
3. Do use a jewelery. There's nothing as cute as seeing a guy with a neck chain (not the ghetto type).
4. Do treat your acne. Not that it really matters as a guy (to some girls) but guys with "fresher" faces tend to get more attention hands down!
5. Do get a pair of fairly skinny jeans. Even if its not your style, skinny jeans do some good. Ask Kanye West.
6. Do get some see-through lenses. You the type to wear shades indoor? Put an end to that retarded look and get the see-through Holly Buddy fashion glasses, they look cool.
7. Do wear shorts that are your size (or a size bigger) if you like your shorts below your knees.
8. Do wear Sandals and open foot wear. Nothing as good as appearing to stress less about shoes to put on yet allowing air through your toes :-)
9. Do get clean and clipped nails with a nice wrist watch to look "forward" to.
10. do go around with a good breath. Gum, mint or fruity candy appeals a vibe that's is "fresh".

FASHION DONTS 

1. Don't have earphones around in your ears. Honestly, it shows you listen to that much music in hopes of being like the artist & also depicts you are not a good listener to human beings in physical.
2. Don't wear FAKE designer products. This is something women can get away with such as their: "G&D" or "OXOX" purses. That can be overlooked but attention is paid more to "designers" guys wear such as "Rebok" or "Addidas".                                                                                               PS: It is more likey that "good/decent" girls are attracted to American eagle type of guys and not the Gucci and Bvlgari ones.
3. Don't sag your pants! Pulling your pants lower than your boxer shorts don't speak well of your intelligence.
4. Don't spend a great deal trying to prep your shoes/ canvases or athletic footwear. It exposes how vain you are or how much attention you need.
5. Don't wear your wrist watches lose. The type that ends between your wrist and five fingers *thumbs down* Its shows you dont even check the time.
6. Don't (if you drive) put your windows down and increase the volume. Your not in the 90s, you'll be screaming the word "ghetto" if you did. Exception: If you drive a convertable in Berverly Hills, California or Florida.
7. Don't go on getting tattoos for the summer. Piercings and tattoos done for the summer reveal how shallow and vain one is.
8. Don't wear tight shirts if you have really huge biceps (except you are gay on the down-low) and also avoid wearing muscle teasers either.
9. Don't be seen with an unecessary bow tie or tie on a normal day (if its not your style) except you're a fashion icon expecting the paparazzi to pop outside your when you step out.
10. Don't be caught wearing a suit. A blazer jacket is good but a suit reveals how uninformed you are in the fashion world.

Number 8a is courtesy of "Folly B" a Skype brother mentioned in the first blog note. Every other thing else was made up by me. Feel free to comment or rate it.